10 responses to “How does it feel to experience Sleep Paralysis?”

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  2. Daniel

    Hi there
    Just one thing to set my mind at ease – do you think it’s actually possible to suffocate during SP? I get it quite frequently and am currently endeavouring to find a way to enjoy it, but the recurring fear is that I’m actually going to die through suffocation. This is because I often sleep with my face partially mushed against my pillow or covered with bedding (it’s cold where I live!), therefore when I get SP and find I can’t move, I start to panic, and it’s usually only when I really begin to think I’m going to die that I snap out of it.

    Second question – is it really true that you experience SP with your eyes open? I thought that because it occured during REM your eyes would be darting all over the place. It’s certainly how I feel, because even though I see things, I know it’s an hallucination, and if I concentrate I can kinda feel my eyes “flickering” (no other way to describe it). Of course, I wouldn’t be surprised if that was my mind playing tricks on me!

    Even though I find SP quite unpleasant right now, I’m kinda glad that I have it – it’s quite unique and people seem fascinated when they hear about it, so I’m glad I’m experiencing something that most people aren’t able to. Your site is great by the way, keep it up!

  3. admin

    Thanks for the comment. I’ll try to address both of your questions, but keep in mind that these are hard questions to answer.

    In all of my research I have never encountered a case of death involving sleep paralysis. The rational side of me wants to say that it is nearly impossible since I have experienced SP hundreds of times over the years and I’m still alive. Also, I too sometimes sleep on my stomach with my face in the pillow and have had SP while in this position. However, if someone has died while experiencing SP in such a position how would we ever know that was the cause of their death? We would have to look into cases of otherwise healthy individuals dying of suffocation in their sleep. Once again I’ve never heard of this. I believe the human body would snap out of SP if breathing was inhibited, but this is just speculation. Still, I wouldn’t worry too much about it. If it’s a concern of yours maybe it’d be beneficial to change sleeping positions (probably better for your back and neck anyway).

    Do we experience sleep paralysis with our eyes open? Good question. This is something I want to see tested in a sleep laboratory to know for sure, however I have some ideas on the matter.

    From my experience, I’ve found that SP can be experienced with your eyes open (at least partially) and with your eyes closed. I recall a particular instance when I was taking a nap with while my sister was watching TV in the same room. I could see her watching TV when the SP set in and I tried to yell out to her but of course no sound came out. I could also accurately hear and see what was going on on the TV. One could argue that I had recalled my surroundings and recreated it accurately, but I’m not sure.

    Most times it happens to me as I’m coming out of sleep. In those instances I think my eyes are closed and my mind completely creates the entire scene, but usually not entirely accurately (although at the time I may think it is). Sort of a false awakening.

    It just occurred to me to try inducing sleep paralysis with a blindfold or sleep mask on. I’d like to see how accurately my mind can recreate my surroundings when I know my eyes can’t possibly be seeing anything. Also try recording myself while in SP and see what my eyelids are doing.

  4. Pete

    I have recently been experiencing sleep paralysis.. so far its happened 3 times.. the first time freaked me out completely.. i woke myself from a nightmare and i couldnt move at all.. my eyes were open but i felt really hazey.. it was when i looked at the door i could clearly see the scary character from my nightmare standing in the doorway… Im assuming this was a ‘hypnopompic hallucination’ that was mentioned.. I paniced as i struggled to jump up but couldnt move, not even my mouth… probably after about 30secs i reckon, i was able to move my leg.. and i put it on the cold floor to be sure i was awake, very strange.
    There was another instance almost exactly the same except i didnt have the hallucination, I woke couldnt move at all.. kinda felt like i had pins and needles sensation all over my body… and again slowly after about 30 secs everything kinda came back.. It was kinda like when you foot falles asleep and you have to wait for it to wake up.. but my whole body.. including my mouth..
    More frightening was the most recent which prompted me to ‘google’ if anyone else has had this experience. I have been having a restless night and rolling around a lot and at some point i woke up lying on my front, with my face mushed against the pillow.. my face was squished in a way that i was breathing through my nose.. I hadnt noticed i couldnt move, until I started to panic as i couldnt get enough air through my nose.. Then i started to really freak as i couldnt get enough air in my breaths were getting shorter and i still couldnt move anything.. i started thinking these were gonna be my last few breaths and what a stupid way to die… and then my arms and legs started tingling like pins an needles and i was able to move my left arm and push myself on to my side.. again id say thow whole episode lasted about 40 – 50 secs.. But still pretty scary… Still a very interesting experience though.. I had read and heard about sleep paralysis before, and assmued that people must be just dreaming or exaggerating… its very strange

  5. admin

    Thanks for sharing your experiences.

    Sleep paralysis can be a very daunting experience. I was terrified the first few times it happened to me until I learned more about it. Try to keep yourself calm when it happens, making sure not to panic. I find that when I don’t panic it subsides much more quickly.

  6. claire

    I have experienced sleep paralysis since i was younger and it happened a few times each year, however over the past few years my experiences have changed.. i find that either before or after the SP sets in i have this really weird vibrating all over my body almost like what i imagine a sezure to be like, its not just tingling its really strong shakes and vibrations im sure i can feel my eyes flickering too..
    is this normal during SP?

  7. admin

    Vibrations involving SP are very common. I get them when going into or coming out of SP. Try to focus on a place you’d like to go when the vibrations set in – this is a good way to launch straight into a lucid dream.

  8. Amanda

    I have had feelings of “flying up” before but I feel like I am partially awake. I normally ‘get out of it’ because, say, my arm jerks. But am I expierencing SP? If not,A) can people expierence this by choice-as in can I make myself expierence it? B) Would I want to? It sounds exciting..sorry to ask all this I’ve just been curious for a while.

  9. Amanda

    So I have had feelings of “flying up” before but I feel like I am partially awake. I normally ‘get out of it’ because, say, my arm jerks. But am I expierencing SP? If not,A) can people expierence this by choice-as in can I make myself expierence it? B) Would I want to? It sounds exciting..sorry to ask all this I’ve just been curious for a while.

  10. admin

    The “loss of gravity” you experienced often proceeds an OBE (out of body experience) and indeed is part of Sleep Paralysis. Many times we realized something is awry and try to regain control of our bodies.

    You can indeed experience SP if you like. It is a wonderful experienced as long as you are prepared for it. Try reading some of the tips posted on this site on how to achieve SP at will (mainly, sleeping on your back). Good luck!

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